About Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane grew up in California and headed east to graduate with honors from New York University, where she majored in English literature and specialized in psychology. She earned her Juris Doctor from New York Law School.

Since July 2016, Annie has offered common-sense solutions to everyday problems in her column, “Dear Annie.” Her advice is unusually perceptive. She is firm, funny and sympathetic, echoing the style of her biggest inspiration, Ann Landers.

Annie lives outside Manhattan with her husband, two kids and two dogs. When not writing, she devotes her time to play dates and Play-Doh. 

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Attending the Wedding Shower with No Wedding Invite Jan 11, 2026

Dear Annie: My grandson, "Billie" is 5 years old and still not potty trained. We have tried everything to get him to use the toilet — rewards, bribes, "gentle threats," etc. We suspect he has encopresis — the repeated, involuntary passing... Read More

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Surviving Cancer but Still Struggling Jan 10, 2026

Dear Annie: I was diagnosed with breast cancer a few months ago. I've been through surgery and radiation treatments. According to the oncologists, I should now consider myself a "survivor." Since I have scars, I'm taking medication for the next 10 ye... Read More

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When a Spouse's Snoring Steals Your Sleep Jan 09, 2026

Dear Annie: I've been happily married for 18 years, and for most of that time I've slept poorly — but lately it's become unbearable. My husband falls asleep within minutes and snores loudly and steadily through the night. I lie awake listening,... Read More

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Midlife, Heartbreak and Starting Over Jan 08, 2026

Dear Annie: I really enjoy reading your column. I have a problem of my own I'd like some help with. I have two daughters in university. When they're home, they stay in their rooms or maybe talk to friends on the phone. They hardly talk to me. They go... Read More